Be Kind to Everyone You Encounter Day . . . You know not what they are living. Established today!
I've been struggling with how to get this website back up running and on fire. Today is the day the spark has taken hold.

Nineteen years ago, within the hour, my life began to turn upside down in a very public place. No one around me noticed.

I am declaring this day to be the first annual . . . 

Be Kind to Everyone You Encounter Day . . . For you know not what they are living.

My husband had a pain crash the day before, one he couldn't "bounce back" from. The next morning I called his doctor to ask if it was time to call in hospice. 

I was at the grocery store, in the checkout line, during rush hour, when the doctor returned my call. I expected his response, but it was a dead-center gut punch nonetheless.

I had always tried to be kind to others, but this provided an entirely new lens. It was magnified a few months later when I was back in that same grocery store checkout line a day or so after my husband died. No one knew I was a walking-wounded, brand new widow. 

We have absolutely no idea with what anyone else is living. If we did, I am sure we would be more kind to them. 

This is just the beginning!!!

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Welcome!

 
Hi! 

I’m Marsha, a wife and a mom who became a widow in my 40’s.

When my husband died I was completely blindsided by the realities of widowhood. Even though I had widows and widowers in my life, I wasn’t remotely prepared for the depth of grief that flooded my entire being . . . or for the life I was suddenly having to live. Yes, we had all of the important things taken care of. But, who knew everything about our lives would change? And, who knew the words we say to the grieving would sound so different from the other side?
 
We need to set aside our predisposed beliefs, assumptions, perceptions, and expectations of widows, their grief, and widowhood and align them with the reality of what they are living. It's the only way we can truly  be the support we want to be for those we care about. Doing so will also help immeasurably if and when our time comes to enter widowhood. 

 
We can do so much better! I'm here to show you the way.

Let’s do this, together!!!
Marsha

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